The Hammer and the Wig

People don’t know.
People don’t know anything.

The other day, I was talking to someone.
About something that he’d done, that he didn’t want to tell me.

“I’m not sure whether to tell you. I don’t want you to judge me,” he said.
“I wouldn’t judge you,” I replied, “I hate judging people. It’s not fair. It’s not right.”
“No, it isn’t fair to judge someone.” he said.

No, it isn’t.
But we all do it anyway. I don’t think we can help it.
Some people, well they almost deserve to be judged.
No, deserve isn’t the right word. I mean, that how they are judged is how they really are.

But other people, like the man who lived on the street because of trauma, they don’t deserve to get judged.
But they get judged anyway.

You can’t tell who a person is. You do not have a right to judge anyone. Because you don’t know what they are thinking, how their mind works, what situations they have been in before. You are not that person, so you cannot judge them.
The only person you can judge is yourself.
Because only you know yourself inside out, back to front.

Do you like what you see when you look at yourself, your actions, your thoughts?